Why not let her pick something out and support her decision?
Worst case, you get a new handgun, while she moves onto something else she likes. Try to stay with a gender neutral color.
EXACTLY!
Why not let her pick something out and support her decision?
Worst case, you get a new handgun, while she moves onto something else she likes. Try to stay with a gender neutral color.
+1 Especially wrt the training. Even with some previous experience she may feel the need to have a refresher course so that she will be comfortable. Take her to several different guns stores as has been suggested to see and handle different models and types. ...and the number one rule, let her pick it out.
I would concur with this! And also would like to say that how FAT you are has nothing to do with what caliber firearm you can handle! I own a glock 19C 9mm for home defense, also a colt 1911 as well as an M4 and am more than comfortable handling many other firearms. I am not from any kind of German stock... Not that there's anything wrong with that... Just saying. Size is not everything!
Hand size does affect grip, I would have to say. In addition, ability to rack the slide can affect which firearm feels best for which woman. Best advice is to involve her in this decision
Just a FYI, Joe, aka "august 1410" bashes his wife since he joined. She then joined and bashed him around. I feel sorry for her and their daughter. The kid must be a saint...
Sorry, Joe and his wife make fun of each other on the forum. That is why he said what he did about her.
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training is still everything
I often see men asking this question about what firearm to get a woman.
I think picking a firearm for another person is a dicey proposition at best. As many others have said, only the shooter can decide what she feels comfortable with in terms of weight, recoil, grip, etc. +1 on all the other posts that said that she has to do the shopping and decide what she likes by running a hundred rounds through a variety.
Sometimes men ask what pistol to get a wife/girlfriend and what they are really asking is, what pistol do I get a new shooter? But not all women are new shooters -- your wife isn't -- and some men are. I see another instructor recommends a revolver as a first gun because of simplicity. I don't have a revolver preference. Nothing is simpler to operate than my Glock and it holds more rounds.
There are only two ways in which I think gender is relevant to pistol choice *on average*. The first is that women tend to have smaller hands, requiring pistols with smaller grips, and the second is that female body shapes and height can make carrying concealed a different proposition than for men. But this is again very individual.
I'm petite, female, with very small hands and my favorite pistol is a .45 ACP Springfield Lightweight Operator with a 5" barrel, which the gunsmith at Engage customized for me with ultrathin grips and a short reach trigger. It shoots more smoothly and with less recoil than my 9 mm Glock 19 and I can actually reach the trigger without canting my hand, which is wonderful. So far it is eating everything I am throwing at it without a hitch -- about 300 rounds through it now. Downside is that .45 is expensive.
I often see men asking this question about what firearm to get a woman.
I think picking a firearm for another person is a dicey proposition at best. As many others have said, only the shooter can decide what she feels comfortable with in terms of weight, recoil, grip, etc. +1 on all the other posts that said that she has to do the shopping and decide what she likes by running a hundred rounds through a variety.
Sometimes men ask what pistol to get a wife/girlfriend and what they are really asking is, what pistol do I get a new shooter? But not all women are new shooters -- your wife isn't -- and some men are. I see another instructor recommends a revolver as a first gun because of simplicity. I don't have a revolver preference. Nothing is simpler to operate than my Glock and it holds more rounds.
There are only two ways in which I think gender is relevant to pistol choice *on average*. The first is that women tend to have smaller hands, requiring pistols with smaller grips, and the second is that female body shapes and height can make carrying concealed a different proposition than for men. But this is again very individual.
I'm petite, female, with very small hands and my favorite pistol is a .45 ACP Springfield Lightweight Operator with a 5" barrel, which the gunsmith at Engage customized for me with ultrathin grips and a short reach trigger. It shoots more smoothly and with less recoil than my 9 mm Glock 19 and I can actually reach the trigger without canting my hand, which is wonderful. So far it is eating everything I am throwing at it without a hitch -- about 300 rounds through it now. Downside is that .45 is expensive.
+1 for great advice.
I will say I have found female shooters (and most shooters in general) prefer full-framed, full-size pistols. The increase in size and weight allows more control and less recoil over their miniaturized brethren. I have yet to find a female shooter who prefers a "woman's gun" (i.e. small-frame revolver or tiny 380 etc) over a full-sized pistol. My girlfriend took a group of new female shooters to the range and they had a G17, G19, Sig P220, and Walther P22. Of the ladies in attendance they all preferred the P220 (in "bone breaking" .45ACP) over the others. The additional weight of the P220 made the recoil more manageable than the polymer pistols and none of them had an issue with the supposed additional recoil.
Before anyone goes off saying small guns are good for a female they need to shoot a few themselves. My LCP is way more abusive to shoot than most of my full-sized service pistols.