At the title says I am looking to buy an xd(m) in either a 9mm 3.8 compact or a .40 3.8 compact. I know this the 9mm, .40 debate has been discuss many times but I am most interested in people who have shot both a 9mm and a .40 in the same body gun and hopefully with the xd(m)'s that I'm looking for.
I used to have a glock 17 and wasn't very good with it so I decided to sell it and now I want to replace it with an xd(m) but I'm debating between on which one to get. It will be my primary HD pistol so I was thinking of bumping up to the .40 but I am concerned about the recoil/flip compared to the 9. Call me a wimp if you want but the G17 had just about as much kick as I wanted for a gun that I plan on practicing on a lot. I understand that as a smaller gun the xd(m) compact may have more which is another reason why I'm concerned about moving up to the .40 but to make matters more confusing I hear many say that to them the .40 feels more comfortable than a 9mm.
Before anyone tells me to shoot both personally and then decide... I can't because I don't have access to those guns. On Target (closest range with a decent rental selection) only has the xdm full size in 9 and in .45.
Any help/advice is appreciated.
I used to have a glock 17 and wasn't very good with it so I decided to sell it and now I want to replace it with an xd(m) but I'm debating between on which one to get. It will be my primary HD pistol so I was thinking of bumping up to the .40 but I am concerned about the recoil/flip compared to the 9. Call me a wimp if you want but the G17 had just about as much kick as I wanted for a gun that I plan on practicing on a lot. I understand that as a smaller gun the xd(m) compact may have more which is another reason why I'm concerned about moving up to the .40 but to make matters more confusing I hear many say that to them the .40 feels more comfortable than a 9mm.
Before anyone tells me to shoot both personally and then decide... I can't because I don't have access to those guns. On Target (closest range with a decent rental selection) only has the xdm full size in 9 and in .45.
Any help/advice is appreciated.