I was wondering if you got it narrowed down to one thing you want to work better. Didn’t sound like you were having a malfunction.Yes.
So with the buffer you can try an adjustable weight buffer with a spring you have and see if you might want more or less recoil/return then get a different spring and go back to the buffer you want. Odin Works is the buffer kit I used.
I tried a bunch of that in a 6.8 SPC thinking It was underused but turned out the bolt carrier wasn’t ‘right’. I put back in the stock spring and buffer that came with the lower I used. Maybe a different animal but an idea.