BigDaddy
Ultimate Member
- Feb 7, 2014
- 2,235
Where do I leave feedback for a seller?
Go to the ad,
Somewhat related.
What happens if a buyer doesn't respond? I can't mark it "unpaid".
I assume this is the bucket of 22 ammo you had on the classifieds.
As an someone who has been selling on MDS and AR15.com for over 10 years I can tell you what I would do. First I would send the buyer a polite but firm message stating that if he can't show up to close the deal within say 48 hours the deal is off. Then I would re-list the item and move on. What I would not do is trash the buyer. I know you are pissed and you have every right to be annoyed as I have experienced the same feelings when dealing with an unreliable buyer. But I have found arguing/trashing the unreliable buyer to be a waste of time and effort and why would you want to argue with an unreliable person? Just move on. It's not like you got ripped of. He didn't steal your ammo. You still have it and can find another buyer.
I will also take this opportunity to once again say that I do not like the commit to buy button since I have had more than one buyer back out after using the commit to buy button. No other gun web board that I know of uses this button.
Being a seller, I absolutely will give the person negative feedback if they hit the commit button and then disappear and never follow through...especially since that closes your ad and takes away the potential to sell to an actual buyer who shows up.....
Let me explain why I don't do this. Yes I have had a fair number of buyers back out of deals over the years. Maybe 10% of the total. But I remember what happened to another guy who went after a buyer who backed out of a deal on another gun website. Let's call the seller a good seller (GS) and the buyer an unreliable buyer (UB).
GS was a known forum contributor who as best as I can tell is a good guy. GS put a part in the classifieds and UB said he would buy it. But then UB backed out so GS gave UB a -1 negative feedback. Well even though UB was completely at fault UB gave GS a -1 negative feedback as revenge for the well deserved negative feedback he received. So now GS has a completely undeserved -1 in his feedback score. He had to beg and plead his case with the board admins to get rid of the -1 score. his was a time wasting lose situation for both the seller and the Board admin.
So to me given the way most gun boards are set up for feedback scores it's just not worth it to get into an argument with an unreliable buyer.
I think it reminds me of this advice:
“Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.”
But in the end that's why I really do not like the commit to buy button. As I said before the only gun board that uses it is MDS. When I am on say 24hourcampfire I can look at the buyer's profile/posts and decide if I want to deal with him. Of course as long as the CTB button exists on MDS I will respect it. Not my website not my rules. Overall this is a great site.
If the seller is not misrepresenting what he is selling, and short of heart attack or death of the buyer, I see no acceptable reason for someone to back out of a commit to buy.
I used to see this on ebay (and it may still exist) The high bidder is someone with ZERO feedback, and he or she never pays, never had any intention of paying and probably gets a new ebay ID and screws the next buyer.
We don't need these deadbeats here.
PS I never did find out where to see the ad where I committed to buy, other than having saved the link
When I used CTB, the site sent a PM saying I committed to a deal with the seller. A link to the ad was in the PM. Is that not the case for you or was I just fortunate?
Let me explain why I don't do this.......
I think it reminds me of this advice:
“Never argue with an idiot. They will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience.”
But in the end that's why I really do not like the commit to buy button......
Overall this is a great site.
I assume this is the bucket of 22 ammo you had on the classifieds.
As an someone who has been selling on MDS and AR15.com for over 10 years I can tell you what I would do. First I would send the buyer a polite but firm message stating that if he can't show up to close the deal within say 48 hours the deal is off. Then I would re-list the item and move on. What I would not do is trash the buyer. I know you are pissed and you have every right to be annoyed as I have experienced the same feelings when dealing with an unreliable buyer. But I have found arguing/trashing the unreliable buyer to be a waste of time and effort and why would you want to argue with an unreliable person? Just move on. It's not like you got ripped of. He didn't steal your ammo. You still have it and can find another buyer.
I will also take this opportunity to once again say that I do not like the commit to buy button since I have had more than one buyer back out after using the commit to buy button. No other gun web board that I know of uses this button.
You shouldn't be allowed to hit ctb in the classifieds until you hit 50 posts. The same as posting an ad.
Or the same as WC and be hidden until then?