Take her to the range. Show her how responsible you are with the weapon. Have her shoot or put her in a firearms class. Nothing changes a gun-phobia like putting holes in paper. It will empower her and she might want a weapon of her own. Just take it slow.
The stand your ground law's main benefit is to protect the citizen from over-zealous prosecution from the DA's office. Of course Holder wants it gone; he's the Atourney General. Makes his job easier and lets jerk prosecutors advance their political careers.
Don't you find it a bit ironic (and hypocritical) that le departments sell off their old service weapons but support gun buy-backs that destroy our old weapons? They are flooding the market with cheap guns! It's an outrage (sarcasm)!
I got 1000 rounds of Tula 115 grain FMJ's from Lucky Gunner a little while ago for about $380 plus shipping. I check out their sight every morning. There stocks are updated live so what you see is what they got. No fishing through backorders or out of stock items. Shipping was around $14.