As a 2x dad with a new little one - I can't even imagine what you two are going through. I truly hope you decide to try again soon.
There is always something good to be taken from anything - it's hard to find it in this case, though. You will get a chance to meet your child one day. S/he will be waiting for you when you pass through those pearly gates.
My condolences, and most heartfelt hugs to you both.