HordesOfKailas
Still learning
So long story short, I'm getting married in September and I'll be moving to a carry-friendly state. Not sure which one yet, but wherever we end up, both open and concealed carry will be options. I already have enough guns to choose from for either OC or CC, but she doesn't have any.
Backstory on her, she's shot guns since she was a kid, but only long guns. She's gotten into handgun shooting in the last year with me and plans to carry (legally of course) after we get married. She's not particularly recoil sensitive, but may be seeing the earliest stages of arthritis so soft shooting is a plus but not an absolute requirement. She's pretty small framed and like most women doesn't wear baggy clothing. So unlike me, CCW necessitates a pretty small gun and she doesn't want to start out OCing.
So here are my main dilemmas:
1.) Semi auto or revolver?
This issue is due to reliability, capacity, and caliber. Revolvers are more reliable but max out around 5-6 rounds for carry pieces and extra mags are easier to carry than speedloaders. I like the extra power of a 38 Spl, but 9mm universally is accepted as sufficient. As far as reliability, I like the inherent simplicity of a revolver, but a quality semi auto should be fine I suppose.
2.) If a semi auto, 380ACP or 9mm?
In 380s we see guns like the Ruger LCP II which is probably my #1 if we go this route. It's tiny and seems like a good fit EXCEPT for the caliber. Would you trust your wife's life to a 380? In 9mm there are more options, but they're bigger and sometimes more expensive. I've looked at the Taurus PT 709, Ruger LC9, Beretta Nano, several S&W guns, and a lot of others. It's hard to dial in to exactly what has the best combination of reliability, shootability, and is still affordable. And since she's new to this stuff she's not a lot of help.
3.) If a revolver, 38 Spl or 357 Mag?
From a snubby, the recoil and blast of a full house load seems pretty extreme. Considering the potential need for follow up shots, that seems bad. I'm inclined to say the shorter cylinder and lower recoil/blast of a 38 Spl make more sense.
So, MDS brain trust: what say you? Anyone here bought a gun for a woman in their life with similar requirements? If so, what did you get and how do they like it? Even better, any women care to chime in?
Backstory on her, she's shot guns since she was a kid, but only long guns. She's gotten into handgun shooting in the last year with me and plans to carry (legally of course) after we get married. She's not particularly recoil sensitive, but may be seeing the earliest stages of arthritis so soft shooting is a plus but not an absolute requirement. She's pretty small framed and like most women doesn't wear baggy clothing. So unlike me, CCW necessitates a pretty small gun and she doesn't want to start out OCing.
So here are my main dilemmas:
1.) Semi auto or revolver?
This issue is due to reliability, capacity, and caliber. Revolvers are more reliable but max out around 5-6 rounds for carry pieces and extra mags are easier to carry than speedloaders. I like the extra power of a 38 Spl, but 9mm universally is accepted as sufficient. As far as reliability, I like the inherent simplicity of a revolver, but a quality semi auto should be fine I suppose.
2.) If a semi auto, 380ACP or 9mm?
In 380s we see guns like the Ruger LCP II which is probably my #1 if we go this route. It's tiny and seems like a good fit EXCEPT for the caliber. Would you trust your wife's life to a 380? In 9mm there are more options, but they're bigger and sometimes more expensive. I've looked at the Taurus PT 709, Ruger LC9, Beretta Nano, several S&W guns, and a lot of others. It's hard to dial in to exactly what has the best combination of reliability, shootability, and is still affordable. And since she's new to this stuff she's not a lot of help.
3.) If a revolver, 38 Spl or 357 Mag?
From a snubby, the recoil and blast of a full house load seems pretty extreme. Considering the potential need for follow up shots, that seems bad. I'm inclined to say the shorter cylinder and lower recoil/blast of a 38 Spl make more sense.
So, MDS brain trust: what say you? Anyone here bought a gun for a woman in their life with similar requirements? If so, what did you get and how do they like it? Even better, any women care to chime in?