A woman with a "bedside gun" isn't going to train to reload under stress.And you know this how? I said it’s good to practice how to reload, not that you would have to. You need to chill. Your soap box is super high...
It's also good to learn to shoot off hand while riding a unicycle too just in case.
I think I've earned a soap box in this field of expertise.
What have you done your whole life for a career? You should chime in on that subject. I promise I won't say I know better than you.