I hear ya...
This is an individual FFL's call, and completely within their "MAY" discretion and comfort level.
But remember... we are dealing with many people (and not just here, so no names) who are only focused on "what about my..."
It's understandable, but they have got to at least hear that this is a big-picture issue, and one size NEVER fits all.
Thus, the MSI/AGC/MLFDA/"Doe Family" lawsuit.
The word "may" will not be removed from the law by the law suit. I doubt we will gain anything useful from it.